Oct 16Member-onlyThere’s Nothing Wrong With YouI recently pointed out to my husband a problem we were having with a device and that the problem always appeared after he used it. As most people would, he insisted it couldn’t just be him. It must also happen when I used it. So, I tracked it for a…Self Improvement3 min readSelf Improvement3 min read
Oct 6Member-onlyIt’s So ExcitingI’ve been crazy busy this week getting ready for the New York premiere of our new play, Wave Me Good-bye, based on my children’s book of the same name. …Play4 min readPlay4 min read
Sep 28Member-onlyArt Comes From All That We AreLast week, I attended a fine art show featuring a curated group of talented Black artists. One of the event’s speakers, Kevin John Goff, was the nephew of famed actress Hattie McDaniel, the first Black American to win an Oscar for her role as Mammy in Gone with the Wind…Artist3 min readArtist3 min read
Sep 15Member-onlyI Choose To Feel It AllMy friend apologized the other day for not stopping by my event that morning. “I meant to come,” she said, “But I woke up grumpy. I know that’s not an excuse because I don’t even know why.” “Do you need a reason?” I asked. “You woke up grumpy and you…Feelings2 min readFeelings2 min read
Sep 7Member-onlyCheers to All Us Daydreamer KidsMy friend, Franklin, and I were bonding over shared memories of getting in trouble for “daydreaming” or “not paying attention” in class. He mentioned he wasn’t really daydreaming, he was processing, and that struck a chord with me. I always felt like an imposter when someone accused me of daydreaming. …Creativity3 min readCreativity3 min read
Aug 30Member-onlyPractical Creativity for Everyday Life and ParentingWhen our kids were growing up, we never used the word “allowance” in our house. I made that decision partly because the concept of an allowance sounded to me like entitlement, on the one hand, and loss of agency on the other. If you get an allowance simply for being…Parenting4 min readParenting4 min read
Aug 27Member-onlyAre You Growing Wiser or Just Older?I was chatting with some friends the other day, and someone said something about how people get wiser as they get older. “Not necessarily.” I said. “You have to choose to get wiser.” They asked me to elaborate, so here’s what I mean . . . Unlike knowledge, which can…Aging2 min readAging2 min read
Aug 8Member-onlyWon’t You Come Home, If Only For a Day?A year ago, my husband and I were visiting our daughter, and the three of us made a quick trip to the Laura Ingalls Wilder Museum in Walnut Grove, Minnesota. …Nostalgia3 min readNostalgia3 min read
Aug 1Member-onlyThe Gift of ReceivingMy birthday is coming up soon, and since I’m too happily busy this year to plan anything, I’ve instead enjoyed looking back on past memorable birthdays and what they meant to me. This morning, this memory came to mind: It was my 12th birthday, I think. My mom always hosted…Aging3 min readAging3 min read
Jun 27Member-onlyAre You Boredom Averse or Stress Averse?Whew, what a crazy week! I feel like I say that a lot. Wait, I do say that a lot. …Personality4 min readPersonality4 min read